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Thursday, 14 May 2015

義賣 “你的生活不該如此,帶上心靈去旅行”籌款

買好書,做善事,請多多支持。使一分一毫都花得有意義,有價值。

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与尼泊尔结下不解缘缘于2011年与EdventureNepal儿童之家的邂逅。那是为什么他们变成了我的家人,而尼泊尔变成了我的家,所以我希望动用自己仅有的能力去为他们在地震后带来光芒。

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有关本人震灾的新闻信息:
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Wednesday, 13 May 2015

尼泊爾救災,身在他國的你,可如可幫忙?

很多人聽聞尼泊爾大地震後,除了感傷外,心中也想爲此事幫上一點忙,例如捐款和捐助物資等等,往往我們急於做善事,而忽略了很多細節,例如捐款或捐助物資,當地人民是否可以直接收到,建議大家不妨在網上做一些資料搜集,然後才作出捐款。

我想很多有心人也希望能夠在這時候盡一份綿力,以下是捐款方式。一個小小的善舉,就能撫慰無數人的心靈,何樂而不爲。


香港捐款:HSBC 5560015173 Lee Wai Ki

国际捐款:Paypal pink.waiki@gmail.com

国内捐款:支付宝 pinkgata@gmail.com

微信钱包 Pink_Abheda


FringeBacker链接: https://www.fringebacker.com/en/projects/Fundraising-for-Edventure-Nepal/


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多得尼泊爾博克拉Edventure Nepal孤兒院幫忙,我們的災區物資分發才那麼順利。

4.25地震發生後,由於我身在加德滿都,並一直多年來協助當地人的一所孤兒院,因此立即於社會網絡平台上籌款,希望為災民解困。

這段時間,除了收到來自世界各地,認識不認識的朋友的捐款,也收到很多希望能出一分力的朋友垂詢能否親身到尼泊爾幫忙。

不如說說我在此能幫上甚麼忙吧。由於我自2011年起便在尼泊爾一所孤兒院做義工,自2014年起,也與本港旅遊義工機構義遊合作在博克拉舉行Love and Light工作營,共帶過57名義工來孤兒院作交流,因此與尼泊爾當地機構甚為熟稔,也熟悉尼泊爾的交通和情況,因此我很容易便能動員及找到當地人的幫助 以及獲得當地的資訊。

此外,我出身新聞系,原本為本港報章的財經記者,也在香港和內地出版過書藉,在網上也擁有遊記專欄,因此擁有一定的人脈。故此,在這段時間,我也主要是連接尼泊爾救災活動與國際上對此事關注的個人,我負責籌款、在網上發布訊息以及在當地作第一手報道。

除此之外,我發現很多事情我也是無能為力,例如當我們前兩天去災區派發物資,所有與當地政府、警察和災民的協調和溝通,也是由Edventure Nepal兒童之家的11名成員負責。在體力上,我能擔抬10公斤的糧食和發放一些物資,但其實我當地孔武有力的伙伴們較我更勝任。所以我當時主要是負責 採訪及當攝影師。

有時,我甚至擔心我們反會成為負擔,例如第一天去災區時天雨路滑,如果我們有甚麼意外,反而要其他人來拯救我們呢!幸好除了我之外,連司機和所有義工也是尼泊爾人,因此他們熟悉路況,也知道如有意外應如何處理。

但,我也認識幾位於博克拉的外國朋友,自己擔粗粗買了一些物資就租了一輛的士和一輛電單車就直接前往災區。由於事前沒有跟當地協調,也沒有視察過情況,因此到達後才發現該小城已充滿了救援物資,也有很多警察在幫忙,所以他們只能把那些物資放在已經堆積如山的救援物資旁邊。

幸得Edventure Nepal的義工幫忙,我們到達前已與當地警察和政府協調,也在前一天派員視察過災區的實際情況,最後我們才正式出動,順利把所有物資在沒有任何行政成本下,直接交到災民手上。


我們也事前協調了當地警察、政府和當地社工。

Edventure Nepal的成員孜孜不倦地幫忙。

我發現我們的團體以尼泊爾義工為主導實在十分重要,因為他們會說當地語言,也熟悉當地政情。

那身處國外的你,可如何幫忙呢?真心說,如果你沒有特別我們需要的技能,如我們現正找一些知道如何重建防震樓房的專家,只是空有一片熱心,確實幫不上甚麼 忙,而且反而會成為負擔。因為我們,以及其他當地組織要照顧前來的外國義工,也要為他們安排交通和食宿,以目前的情況來說,我們實在沒有這方面的時間和精力。

很多人也發訊息給我們說希望捐助物資,我們確實需要物資,但問題是運送有十分高的難度,現時大量物資已空運至尼泊爾機場,機場超負荷至跑道已經出現裂縫, 而且尼泊爾政府沒有足夠的人力和物力把物資送到災區,現在所有物資也囤積於機場。所以我們情願在當地搜購所有基本物資,期望當物流比較暢順時才作出捐助物資的呼籲。

不過,身處國外的你,卻可以從不同方面幫助我們。例如,不少組織已在舉辦不同活動籌款,如長洲Morocco餐廳的慈善自助餐、有朋友說正籌備慈善音樂晚 會、長洲的鄺國威前議員、現任街坊代表所發起的活力長洲及其義工已幫忙籌得一定款項。另外,不少香港朋友在幫我作出不同程度的國際聯絡、翻譯、行政查詢, 甚至內地的朋友也在幫我不斷在微信平台上更新訊息,及幫忙處理義賣書本的物流等。

我們不排除過了一段時間後,我們需要義工幫忙為災民重建家園,但在這之前,我們首先要籌到購買基本震災物資和重建家園的款項,那我們才可作進一步考慮。

至於捐款方面,我建議大家一定要看看有關機構是否把捐款直接用於災民身上,也要看看他們是否有尼泊爾本地機構協助,因為我發現很多國外團體想幫忙,但都被尼國政府拒諸門外,主要是因為尼國有對外國慈善團體在該國協助的限制和監管。我認為尼國政府實需要在此地震震災的特殊況下放寬規管,但似乎他們實在太過制 度化,因此現時很多國外團體也愛莫能助。

那不如捐款給尼國的全國震災基金?對此,我十分存疑。尼國政府出名腐敗,即使所有尼泊爾人也不避忌地批評政府,及投訴現時政府的震災工作是如何沒有效率和 太過官僚化。我在救災時便聽到一個當地人所謂的「笑話」,前幾天,政府派出一架直升機運送物資到偏遠的Gorkha區域,他們放下了一個帳篷和三袋米便離 開了,而他們在開支表上則填上了2萬5千美元的費用!這被當地人視作笑話,是因為他們已對政府的腐敗見怪不怪。而當地災民所能做的,只是望天打卦,期望有 非牟利慈善團體出現幫忙。

其實現時除了我們之外,也有很多個人在尼泊爾發起籌款及直接把物資發放到災民手上,所以我建議大家不妨在網上做一些資料搜集,然後才作出捐款。


喜見災民在收到我們的物資時臉上重現笑容。

如你想了解更多我們的救災資訊,請到此www.facebook.com/lightonnepal


60 Hours after the Earthquake

當收到尼泊爾地震的消息時,心裏很難過,我知道捐款和為他們祈禱是在我能力範圍能夠做 到的,要捐款也必須找到一個好的管道,剛好看到朋友Pink以下的一篇文章,她除了講述自己在地震現場的實況外,還留在尼泊爾為這次的大地震籌款,幫助災 後的善後工作。我想很多有心人也希望能夠在這時候盡一份綿力,以下是捐款方式。一個小小的善舉,就能撫慰無數人的心靈,何樂而不爲。

香港捐款:HSBC 5560015173 Lee Wai Ki
国际捐款:Paypal pink.waiki@gmail.com
国内捐款:支付宝 pinkgata@gmail.com
微信钱包 Pink_Abheda

FringeBacker链接: https://www.fringebacker.com/en/projects/Fundraising-for-Edventure-Nepal/

 If you wish to help Nepal, a nice and lovely country, we are fundraising now to provide the locals who have yet to receive any assistance with food, clothes, tents etc. See for details: www.facebook.com/lightonnepal



When the Nepal earthquake took place on 25 April I was right in Kathmandu, ready to receive the 7 volunteers from Hong Kong who were originally scheduled to arrive that night for the Love and Light Workcamp. Who would have thought of encountering a massive earthquake that occurs only once in a hundred years (the previous huge earthquake in Nepal was 80 years ago).

A few days before the earthquake

After arriving at Kathmandu from Pokhara by bus on 20 April, I caught the flu the next day – it got serious and I was in bed for two days. Intestinal flu developed, and for two days I suffered from diarrhoea. I therefore didn’t move about much and was resting in the hostel most of the time. It was only until 24 April evening when two Hong Kong volunteers arrived early that I visited the local market with them on 25 April morning.

Close to noon when the big earthquake was about to happen, they were planning to go to Dubar Square. I decided to return to the hostel to rest as I had not fully recovered from the illness. On the way back, I dropped by a bookstore to check out some books.

The rocking moments

I was sitting on a low chair when suddenly I felt clearly that a thump of the heart of the earth. My intuition told me, “This is earthquake; run!” However, the apparently rationally trained mind said, “Impossible!” Very soon after, it was obvious that the heart of the earth started to pump continuously. I saw the bookstore owner getting up quickly and running towards the door. I instinctively dashed for the exit too – when at the same time I heard loud noises of books falling – I thought to myself: “Run faster or get buried in the books!”


Books in the bookstore all over the ground after the earthquake

It was not easy to run; it felt like standing on the deck of a rocking ship. I made my way to the door swaying from side to side, but the exit was small – I remember pressing my hand on the back of the bookstore owner in pink t-shirt, thinking: “Goodness, get out more quickly.” Luckily there were not many customers in the store, or we could have been trapped in it.

Outside the door was a road, and everyone had rushed out. There were screams and sounds of window frames swinging. As I swayed my way forward, a woman tourist for some reason tried to make her way back to the bookstore. I grabbed her and dragged her to the road, saying, “Beware the windows may fall down!” At that moment, her boyfriend hurried over too to protect her, and we swayed our way back to the centre of the road together.
Everyone ran for the streets when the earthquake took place

The earth was shaking even more violently. I looked up and saw a dark sky, dust flying, birds fleeting, crows crying. I didn’t know how scared I looked, but the people around were petrified, and my heart was beating fast. I noticed that all the windows in the three-storey buildings on both sides were making creaking noises, and thought: “These windows may fall down anytime. Get out of here.” As I was going to move along the road, the earth stopped shaking.

12 hours after the quake

Where I was in the outskirts of Thamel, Kathmandu was one of the newer areas, and so only some of the lamp posts and walls had collapsed. On return to the hostel, I reunited with the two Hong Kong volunteers and learnt that they had a narrow escape. Looking at their photos, Dubar Square was seriously damaged; the monuments all turned into rubble!
 
                             Collapsed lamp post in the new area where I was located
 The entire wall near the hostel fell down



Tower in Dubar reduced to flat land within seconds (photo by Franco)

We and many travellers in the hostel were in the lobby, trying to connect with the unstable internet network. My mobile 3G signals were on and off; there was traffic jam on the telecom network as I tried to call the chairman of the children’s home. At that point, to put safety the priority, the volunteering organization in Hong Kong and I decided to cancel the week-long workcamp. Fortunately, the 6 Hong Kong volunteers had yet to set off, although one volunteer was transiting in Kuala Lumpur and was stuck there due to the closure of the Nepal airport.

At dusk, a number of travellers took their sleeping bags planning to spend the night outdoors. At first, we had no such plan; but we ran outside in fear each time there was aftershock and, as there was forecast that there would be a strong aftershock that evening, we borrowed blankets from the hostel to spend the night outside. We were lucky that it was not too cold, and even when it rained at midnight it was only a short drizzle. So we felt rest assured staying outdoors on this day of the huge earthquake. Rest assured because even if there were a few strong aftershocks throughout the night, we could get back to sleep after having been shaken awake as we were already outside.


My yoga mat proved useful for spending the night outdoors

24 hours after the quake

At 6:30am on 26 April, we unexpectedly ran into the minivan driver hired by our workcamp. I had not been able to get in touch with him since the network could not connect. After discussing with Amrit, we decided to postpone our departure because even if we were to leave Kathmandu on the day, there might still be landslides from aftershock on the road to Pokhara. The two Hong Kong volunteers wanted to return to Hong Kong immediately, and so we parted ways. I went with Amrit to stay at his sister and brother-in-law’s.

Their home was in a new residential area outside of the town centre, and was not much affected. Several buildings, with their foundations having been affected, did not look straight, while the rooftop of one building had a large piece of cement hanging in the air. Even so, the residents of the area all camped out in fear of damage that might be caused by aftershocks.
 Residents with homes that they could not return to
Deeply touched by the residents’ donating blood courageously

It felt warm to see Amrit’s big family of nine, together with several neighbours, helping each other out – cooking and eating together, and camping in the same tent. When they gave me the freshly prepared hot Dhal Bhat (lentil rice and vegetables, a local main meal), I was moved. That was my first proper meal 24 hours after the quake.

36 hours after the quake

For the entire afternoon that followed, we for fear of aftershocks stayed in the tent like camping and picnicking in the countryside. What was different was that during the occasional aftershocks, people ran out of the tents in panic. All we talked about was related to the earthquake, and we kept paying attention to the news on the radio. The area was out of electricity and running water, and the network disconnected often. We only managed with difficulty to charge our phones, to keep in touch with the outside world.

It rained in the evening and the temperature dropped substantially. My thoughts were with the people in Nepal whose homes had been destroyed, hoping they could find shelter. On the other hand, those of us here with homes that could not be returned to were not too comfortable either. 20 people hid in a tent, with the rain reducing the area in which we could sleep. We had to share 3 blankets among the 20 of us on this cold night.

48 hours after the quake

When at last it was dawn – after having been “shaken up” for a number of times by aftershocks – I was grateful beyond words when I saw the first sunrise after the earthquake and it was all sunny and bright. It was not an easy thing to be alive!

The aftershocks reduced in the afternoon, and Amrit, his brother’s family and I decided to return to Pokhara. Amrit’s sister was worried, asking them in tears not to go, so that they could stay together safely as a family. Nonetheless, they decided to go back because Amrit’s mother was by herself in Pokhara.


Kathmandu in ruins on the drive to Pokhara

We learnt from the news that the relief work by the government was mainly in Kathmandu and had yet to reach the villages near the epicentre. As we were doing fine, Amrit and I decided to help by fundraising, in the hope of providing food, clothes and tents for the victims.

60 hours after the quake

After an 11-hour drive, we finally returned to relatively calm Pokhara and saw the ten little angels in the children’s home again. Two people died in Pokhara during the earthquake, compared with some 4000 (and still counting) in Kathmandu.
The little angels alive and well, not affected by the trauma of the quake

A journalist asked me: when to return to Hong Kong? I said, no plans yet.

When the Hong Kong volunteering organization asked if I would take the charter flight to return home, I declined without thinking.

I did not feel I wanted to escape from Nepal, but to go to the places in need and do my best to help with my money and effort. Why? Perhaps all these years of volunteering, travelling and living in different countries have made me realize deeply that I am part of the global village.

I replied to the journalist, “Nepal is my home.” “In fact, the world is my home.”

If you wish to help Nepal, a nice and lovely country, we are fundraising now to provide the locals who have yet to receive any assistance with food, clothes, tents etc. See for details: www.facebook.com/lightonnepal

大地震後60小時(捐助信息)

當收到尼泊爾地震的消息時,心裏很難過,我知道捐款和為他們祈禱是在我能力範圍能夠做到的,要捐款也必須找到一個好的管道,剛好看到朋友Pink以下的一篇文章,她除了講述自己在地震現場的實況外,還留在尼泊爾為這次的大地震籌款,幫助災後的善後工作。我想很多有心人也希望能夠在這時候盡一份綿力,以下是捐款方式。一個小小的善舉,就能撫慰無數人的心靈,何樂而不爲。

香港捐款:HSBC 5560015173 Lee Wai Ki
国际捐款:Paypal pink.waiki@gmail.com
国内捐款:支付宝 pinkgata@gmail.com
微信钱包 Pink_Abheda

FringeBacker链接: https://www.fringebacker.com/en/projects/Fundraising-for-Edventure-Nepal/


Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/lightonnepal

 

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震前数日

我于4月20日从博克拉(Pokhara)坐巴士抵达加都后,翌日便患上了重感冒,卧床两日,继而接连感冒菌入肠,连续两天出现水状腹泻,吃甚麽泻甚麽。因此,也没有到处走动,一直留在旅馆休息。直到4月24日晚有两名香港义工先抵达,25日早上才与他们逛当地的农墟。

由于身体仍未完全康复,故接近中午即大地震发生前,他们打算前往Dubar Square,我则决定返回旅馆休息。途经一所书店,不自觉走进去打书钉了。

地震瞬间

当 时我正坐在一张矮凳上,突然明显地感到大地的心脏跳了一下,直觉告诉我:「这是地震,速逃!」可惜那所谓受过理智训练的脑袋却说:「没可能!」没等我想完 多久,大地的心脏开始明显连续跳起来,我看见书店老板急速站起来往大门奔跑,我也二话不说本能地站起来并往门口狂奔,同时听到「呯呯膨膨」的不断有书掉下 来,心想:「走快一点,不然会被书本没埋!



(地震后书店书本散落一地。)

狂奔时也并不容易,就像站在巨浪翻滚的船舱甲板上,我左摇右摆地才衝到门口,而且书店门口小,我还记得我的手按在书店老板粉红色的T-shirt背上,心想:「天啊,快一点出去吧。」幸好书店客人不多,否则可能会出现堵塞并把我们困在店裡。

口门外便是大路,只见所有人也衝出来了,听到尖叫声和窗框摇摆声,当我正摇晃着往前走时,一个女游客不知何故跌跌撞撞地往书店的方向走,我一把将她捉住并把她往大路拉着走说:「小心上面的窗户会掉下来!」突然,她男友也衝过来保护她,我们便一同左右摇摆地跑到大路中央。



(地震发生时,大家都跑到大街上。)

大 地摇晃得更强烈了,我抬头一望,只见天空灰暗一片,沙尘滚滚,百鸟齐飞,乌鸦们不断在嘶叫,我不知自己的样子有多惊慌,只见到旁边的人面目怆惶,我的心也 不断在狂跳,我看着两旁约三层楼高的建筑物上,所有窗户也发出吱吱喳喳的叫声,心裡在盘算:「这些窗户可能随时掉下来,快找地方逃。」正当我打算沿大路往 前走时,大地停止震动了。

震后12小时

由于我当时身处的是加都Thamel外围较新的区域,因此只见到一些电灯柱和围牆倒塌。至后来返回旅馆,与另外两个香港义工重逢,才知道他们死裡逃生。看到他们的照片,发现Dubar Square那边灾情严重,古蹟全变成瓦砾!


(我身处的新区有电灯柱塌下来了。)

旅馆附近的整片牆壁也倒下来了。


(Dubar Square的古塔在瞬间被夷为平地(照片由Franco拍摄)。)

我 们和很多旅馆的旅人都待在大堂裡,尝试接通那非常不稳定的互联网网络,我手机的3G也是时有时没有,想打电话给儿童之家主席,也发现电讯网络大挤塞。此 时,我和香港义工机构那边以安全为前提,已决定要取消为期一个星期的工作营了。幸好,6位香港义工仍未出发。不过有一个义工则已在吉隆坡等待转机,但因尼 泊尔机场关闭而滞留当地。

接 近黄昏,有不少旅人拿着睡袋打算到室外过夜,我们本没有此打算,但发现每次馀震也是甚为惊恐的往外跑,再加上有消息预期指晚上会有强烈的馀震,因此我们便 借了旅馆的棉被到空地上过夜。幸好天气不算太冷,即使午夜时下雨也只是短暂的微雨,因此我们便安心地在外渡过了这大地震的一天。说安心是因为即使在半夜时 感受到数次强烈的馀震,但因为我们在空地上,因此被「震醒」了后,又可再倒头大睡。



(在户外过夜,我的瑜伽垫大派用场。)

震后24小时


26 日清晨6时半,竟然在空地上巧遇了我们工作营承租了小型客车的司机,由于网络没有接通,因此一直没有联络上他。与Amrit联络过后,认为即日离开加都, 往博克拉的路上仍可能会遇上馀震引发的山泥倾泻,因此我们还是决定押后起程。由于两位香港义工仍希望找方法即时回港,我便与他们分道扬镳,我则跟随 Amrit去他姐姐和姐夫家逗留。

他们的家在市中心外的新住宅区,故没有受太大影响。最严重的是看到有数座楼房地基被影响了,因此有点歪歪斜斜,以及一座楼房的天台有大块石屎倒吊半空中。不过,该区居民仍因惊恐馀震会造成破坏,因此全都在空地上扎营。


(居民都有家归不得。)



(看到居民勇于捐血,甚是感动。)

看到Amrit的大家族共9人联结了几个邻居家庭守望相助,不但一同煮饭吃喝,还一同待在帐篷裡,感觉煞是温馨。而当他们向我递上热腾腾,刚煮好的Dhal Bhat(豆饭和蔬菜,当地主食)时,我实在是感动不已,那是地震后24小时我的第一餐正餐。

震后36小时

其 后整个下午,由于害怕馀震,因此我们就如在郊外露营野餐般在帐篷中渡过。不同的是,当偶有馀震时,人们仍是惊慌地跑出帐篷。而我们谈论的话题,都是围绕地 震,以及不断留意收音机播出的相关新闻。此外,整个区域也没有电和没有自来水,网络也是不时有中断。我们也是好不容易才让手机充到一些电,好与外界保持联 络。

晚上,突然下起雨来,气温亦大幅下降。想着家园被毁的尼泊尔人们,只希望他们有瓦遮头。这边厢有家归不得的我们亦不见得太舒服,20人躲在一个帐篷裡,雨水把我们可睡觉的范围缩小了,我们10个人也需在这寒冷的晚上共同分享3张毛毡。

震后48小时

好不容易熬到天亮,虽然期间有不少次数被馀震「震醒」,但看到地震后的第一个破晓,阳光普照,实在感恩得不得了,要知道,能活着其实真的不容易!

至下午,见馀震已平伏很多,我和Amrit,以及他哥哥一家便决定返回博克拉。虽然Amrit姐姐仍是十分担心,还哭着央求他们不要走,好让一家人能齐整平安地逗留在一起。但由于Amrit妈妈只有自己一人在博克拉,他们仍是决定返回看望妈妈。



(在驶往博克拉途中看到加都一片满目疮痍。)

从新闻得知,政府的救援工作只是集中于加都,但震央附近的村落仍未有救援到达。由于我们人身安全已确保,因此,我和Amrit均决定尽力帮一把,发起筹款活动,希望为灾民提供食物、衣服和帐篷等好解燃眉之急。

震后60小时

经过十一小时的车程,我们终于回到相对平静的博克拉,并与儿童之家的十位小天使重逢,地震发生期间,这裡只有两人丧生,相对于加都约4000人(数目仍在增加中),实在是不幸中的大幸。

(小天使们生龙活虎,完全没有地震阴影。)

有记者问我,何时会回香港?我说没有打算。

香港义工团体那边问我要不要坐包机回港,我想也没想便说不用。

我没有要逃离尼泊尔的感觉,反而是想走进有需要的地方,尽我所能,要钱出钱,要力出力。何解?或许多年义工服务以及在世界不同地方旅居的生活,让我深深感受到我是地球村的一分子。

我对记者说:「尼泊尔是我家。」「其实世界都是我家。」



尼泊尔感谢你的关注!也感谢许多朋友发来的信息。我现在很安全,但是大地震的死亡数量仍在攀升,还有很多震中的乡村情况不明。有很多民众目前无家可归需要衣 物和食品,我和Armit决定为村民筹款购买帐篷,衣物,和食品。我全世界的亲友们,如果你愿意帮助,这里是我们的信息:

香港捐款:HSBC 5560015173 Lee Wai Ki
国际捐款:Paypal pink.waiki@gmail.com
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截至昨天(29日)为止,筹款数量已达68744.28HKD。感谢你们的善举,我们会一直持续更新最前方的消息!
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Wednesday, 17 September 2014

蕭敬騰:那溫暖,讓我想變成一個更好的人题

做自己

無論別人怎麽
神創造你成爲現在的樣子一定有它的原因。
除此之外,
原版永遠比翻版有價值。

剛看完這篇蕭敬騰的專訪,太好了,邊看邊讚,感動得讓我想哭,他不就是一個活生生
的每一個都是獨一無二的心靈寫照嗎?在他的專訪中,我看到了社會無私的大愛,人的本質真善美愛。蕭敬騰:那溫暖,讓我想變成一個更好的人题

給自己的話,與大家共勉:讓愛傳出去,讓更多人感到溫暖,他
也許不需要你的一個讚美,他更需要的是你對他的認同,支持鼓勵以及默默地陪伴。

愛,可以讓世界變得美麗又和諧。蕭敬騰:那溫暖,讓我想變成一個更好的人题


會畫畫、會打鼓、會彈琴、會唱歌,同時還是運動健將的男孩,他的成長過程應該是怎麼樣的?被肯定讚美?被鼓勵追捧?

不,並沒有。相反的,他的年少歲月充滿挫折,甚至還差點誤入歧途。這個男孩是蕭敬騰。

因為閱讀障礙,少年時期的蕭敬騰永遠被劃歸為不及格的「壞學生」。他無法透過文字理解這個世界,而在那個時間點,他所處的世界也不能理解他的困境。這個「缺陷」,幾乎抵銷了他所有的才華。

在荷爾蒙狂飆的叛逆期,萬華長大的蕭敬騰,把自己的青春弄得跟電影《艋舺》一樣。他蹺課逃家,打架尋釁,按照他自己的說法,變成了一個「討人厭的」、「很壞很壞的孩子」。

幸運的是,少年輔導組的志工,在他站在人生懸崖邊的時候,拉了他一把,用關懷與音樂,救贖了這個徬徨的靈魂。若不是他們,今天的華人流行音樂圈,就不會有這位「洛克先生」。

走過徬徨青春,問他如果現在能夠與十年前那個逞強、叛逆的自己相遇,會覺得這個青少年很討厭嗎?蕭敬騰笑了,幾乎不假思索的回答:「不,我想我會覺得他很可愛。」
以下是他的訪談摘錄:
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我 從小就是一個不會讀書的小孩。普通人說一個小朋友「不會讀書」,是說他功課不好;但我「不會讀書」的程度,是一般人完全無法想像的,我是「沒有辦法讀 書」。我連最基本、最簡單的字詞,都沒有辦法理解,這些東西,是每一個人都會的,可是我就是不會,認識我的人,都覺得很誇張。

我覺得這樣 非常不好,但是學校教給我的東西,無論我怎麼專心努力,我都無法吸收進去。老師或父母,都無法理解我的困境,他們就是一直逼迫我,用不好聽的字眼來形容 我。我不是沒有努力過,我那時候有交女朋友,女生都希望跟功課好一點的男朋友在一起,我也曾經因為愛情的力量,很努力的嘗試過,但是,我真的沒有辦法克 服,不懂,就是不懂。

後來,我變得很壞很壞。在學校不開心,我就不上課、抽菸、逃家、打架、混撞球間……徹底變成不良少年,我爸媽一直很 擔心我早晚會出事,會變成社會的負擔。對國中男生來說,我的臉又長得一副欠揍、討人厭的樣子;加上我那時候的行為、言語都很刺激別人,一天到晚都有打不完 的架。

其實,我心裡知道,我並不是真的那麼「壞」,但是我「必須」這麼壞。因為在我們那個世界裡,如果我不這麼壞,我就會被欺負;我不霸凌別人,別人就會來霸凌我。一直到遇見少輔組的人,我的人生才有了轉變。

一般「正常的大人」對我們這種行為偏差小孩的反應就是:你不讀書,我就逼你讀書;你要打電動、打撞球,我就逼你不要做;但少輔組的志工不是,他們不是來教育你、矯正你的,他們只是來陪伴你、親近你,跟你講話、給你溫暖,不知不覺中引導你。

他們不像警察,也不像少年感化院,會把你「抓進去」,用各種手段「糾正」你的行為;他們對我們做的,就是去我們常出沒的地方,像是撞球間、某一條巷子,陪我們去做我們喜歡做的事。

我後來,是自己主動走進少輔單位的,因為,我覺得那裡有溫暖,那種溫暖,讓我想變成一個好一點的人。

少 輔組的人一直製造機會給我,讓我覺得我是有用的人。因為我會打爵士鼓,他們就跟他們上級單位要了一些經費,買了一套爵士鼓放在那裡,讓我在裡面教一些小朋 友、大朋友打鼓,連續兩屆幫我報名「善心人士獎」,我因此被市政府表揚。這個獎對我來說很重要,讓我知道,原來,我不是社會的負擔,還可以幫社會做很多事 情。

我覺得,青少年可以做的事情其實很多,只是他們自己可能不知道,也沒有遇到一個可以引導他們的人。特別是問題青少年來說,像少輔組這樣「跟他們不同世界」,但是又不帶偏見、願意走入他們世界的人,是很重要的。

我自己很幸運,在我迷失的時候,有人願意幫助我。現在,只要有跟兒童、青少年有關的活動,如果許可,我都願意親自參與。以前,別人給過我機會;現在,我希望自己也能做個給別人機會的人。


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Tuesday, 2 July 2013

轉文~Pay it forward 讓愛傳出去

看了這篇文章,心裏感到非常開心與感動,世界各個角落都在散發著愛的光芒。 感謝慧琪讓我能借由她寫的文章,讓愛傳出去。 感恩~


只要有愛,世界繼續放光芒。


Pay it forward 讓愛傳出去
http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=9096013336033512474#editor/target=post;postID=4599360266979366132